“Two are better off than one, because together they can work more effectively. If one of them falls down, the other can help him up. But if someone is alone and falls, it’s just too bad, because there is no one to help him. If it is cold, two can sleep together and stay warm, but how can you keep warm by yourself? Two people can resist an attack that would defeat one person alone. A rope made of three cords is hard to break.“
— Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 (GNT)
The three cords were God, Robert and me –
“I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.”
— Ezekiel 36:26 (GNT)
The Immoral Woman
6 Once I was looking out the window of my house, 7 and I saw many inexperienced young men, but noticed one foolish fellow in particular. 8 He was walking along the street near the corner where a certain woman lived. He was passing near her house 9 in the evening after it was dark. 10 And then she met him; she was dressed like a prostitute and was making plans. 11 She was a bold and shameless woman who always walked the streets 12 or stood waiting at a corner, sometimes in the streets, sometimes in the marketplace. 13 She threw her arms around the young man, kissed him, looked him straight in the eye, and said, 14 “I made my offerings today and have the meat from the sacrifices. 15 So I came out looking for you. I wanted to find you, and here you are! 16 I’ve covered my bed with sheets of colored linen from Egypt. 17 I’ve perfumed it with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon. 18 Come on! Let’s make love all night long. We’ll be happy in each other’s arms. 19 My husband isn’t at home. He’s on a long trip. 20 He took plenty of money with him and won’t be back for two weeks.” 21 So she tempted him with her charms, and he gave in to her smooth talk. 22 Suddenly he was going with her like an ox on the way to be slaughtered, like a deer prancing into a trap23 where an arrow would pierce its heart. He was like a bird going into a net—he did not know that his life was in danger.
24 Now then, sons, listen to me. Pay attention to what I say. 25 Do not let such a woman win your heart; don’t go wandering after her. 26 She has been the ruin of many men and caused the death of too many to count. 27 If you go to her house, you are on the way to the world of the dead. It is a shortcut to death.
Proverbs 7:6-27
- By posting this I am not in anyway saying that the women who accused Robert falsely succeeded in seducing him or that I believe that they had the level of beauty or subtle charm mentioned here. I personally think much of the beauty today is superficial and manufactured and not the natural beauty they speak of here and that I grew up with. This was written during a time when women were far more natural, even the “immoral woman.” So what does that suggest even in that. Women are taking far more steps in taking care of themselves, yes, but also in seduction, negatively influencing men today on a much larger scale. Its nothing to take lightly. Those with wisdom understand the repercussions on society from this insatiable culture filled with this type of “charm.”
I will begin this article a little differently—with a simple prayer.
“In the name of The Father, The Son & The Holy Spirit.
God of all goodness, teach me to rest in You without laziness. Teach me to trust You without denial of reality. Teach me to walk forward one day at a time, with the calm strength that comes from belonging to You.
Amen”
From: Deliverance And Protection Prayers, A Catholic Prayer Manual For the Laity. By Fr. Matthew J. Calderon, STL
It has been many years since Robert’s and my story began, and over the last seven years, so many characters—too many to count—have flowed in and out of it. Yet one thing has remained constant: the steady stream of people with mental health conditions, personality disorders, and other psychological issues.
It has become clear to me, simply from living in this world and belonging to a generation that transitioned from a world without the World Wide Web and the internet to one dominated by a complex social media and online ecosystem, that something has been growing beneath the surface.
The general public calls them narcissists. Psychology and psychiatry describe some of them as having antisocial personality disorder, as outlined in the DSM. Those of us who are religious and spiritually aligned may describe them as demonic or even as a form of possible demonic possession.
One thing is certain: more and more people are becoming aware that there is an evil in this world that cannot be cured, cannot be changed, and is incredibly difficult to understand, identify, and overcome. Whatever line of thinking you come from, you will understand these terms because social media has made them widely known.
Firstly, let me make it clear that I am not going to attempt to diagnose anyone medically. I am not a psychiatrist or psychologist, and it would be both unethical and irresponsible for me to do so.
However, because this situation is deeply personal to me and comes from firsthand experience, I will speak with confidence as someone whose studies, qualifications, and learning in integrative medicine (Health Science) allow me to at least guide people in the right direction as they seek to understand Robert’s story and mine, but particularly Robert’s.
To understand it, you have to go back you have to go back to the beginning, when a young woman in his family repeatedly, brutally, horrendously and insideously sexually assaulted him as a child of only four or five years old. That is where I believe it all truly began.
Robert first told this story himself in his book Soulacoaster.
I see this as the beginning of what I call the blurred lines of female predators—or, in my view, the narcissistic and antisocial personality disorder type. Any person who assaults a child is undoubtedly evil, manipulative, psychotic, delusional, pathological, deprived of conscience, and deeply disordered, regardless of whether they are young or old. It does not matter their age, race, or gender.
I believe this early abuse made it far more difficult for Robert to clearly identify these types of people later in life, particularly women. The complexity of psychopathic and sociopathic personalities is that they often present a combination of superficial goodness, concern, and care. The mask they wear is one of kindness, love, trustworthiness, and even innocence.
Consider how Robert would have perceived this young woman as someone he could trust, someone who was supposed to love him, and someone whom he genuinely cared about. Now consider the outward image she likely projected to his family and everyone around her—warm, innocent, fun, generous, caring, and trustworthy.
Very few people suspect young women of sexually abusing children because it is comparatively rare. I personally believe this is because women are generally seen as nurturing, protective, kind, empathetic, safe, and trustworthy across cultures.
So why has it been so difficult for people to identify the real abusers in Robert’s life—many of whom, in my view, were women, some young and some older?
It began when he was a little boy and continued as he became a young, inexperienced man.
Predators, each one of them, looking for an opportunity to gain access to him in whatever way they could.
What makes Robert’s story so complex is that he has never identified himself as a victim, nor has he ever claimed the role of a survivor in the sense of being a man who is not in his own power or without his own authority and clarity of mind now. But he does rightfully own the original label of “survivor,” that he had tattooed on his arm many years ago. Most people who endure such experiences either never fully live to tell their story or become defined by the crime, repeating it throughout their lives until it becomes part of their identity.
I realise we are not all made the same, and I am not trying in any way to minimise anyone’s pain. I, too, grew up as a sweet, naïve young girl and later a young woman who sometimes had to fight to protect my own body from unwanted touching, unwanted advances, and even sexual assault. Sadly, this story is incredibly common and knows no race or gender today.
We live in a world filled with good and noble people, or this world could never have continued as it has. But we also live among what I believe are demons and dark spirits working through people, with some individuals, in my view, influenced by something beyond this world.
My scientific education taught me to understand these behaviours through the lens of mental illness and psychological disorders. My spiritual side, however, which is deeply connected to the reality I see every day—in the news and in real life—tells me there is something much deeper taking place. People who reduce everything to a disorder or illness, in my opinion, will never reach the true root of the problem or the true cure, which is, and always will be, God.
I titled this article the way I did because, since 2018, I have witnessed what I believe to be the pathology of certain women and other individuals in Robert’s life. I have watched how they infiltrate, how they manipulate, and how they earn both Robert’s trust and the public’s trust. It often begins by observing Robert from a distance. The situation becomes even more complicated when the individual has met him once or twice or worked somewhere within his career.
When I speak about Sharron Winbush, I use her as a representation of a type of person—both women and men—whom I believe are not only deeply and pathologically disordered but who, in my view, are also influenced by a dark spiritual force that continues to affect their thinking, reactions, beliefs, and relentless obsession with Robert.
I first became aware of Sharron Winbush around 2018 when she gave an interview titled something like, “Sharron Winbush, R. Kelly’s Ex-Chef, Defends Him.” At that stage, I had no idea how deeply entrenched these kinds of characters were around Robert. I only knew that everyone was lying. I didn’t yet understand why. I simply knew I was witnessing something profoundly evil that I had never before encountered to this extent.
I have always been surrounded by genuinely good people. From a young age, my friends were people of deep empathy, strong morals, intelligence, talent, and integrity. I never settled for friendships with people who lacked those qualities.
Because of that, and because I knew Robert personally while coming from a completely different environment, I believe I saw what was happening far more clearly than many others seemed able to.
When people heard Sharron Winbush interviewed, they praised her, blessed her, and thanked her for supporting Robert. His fans and supporters were grateful that someone had spoken publicly in his defence.
Why today are we so easily impressed by simple honesty, I thought, and people telling the truth. It shouldn’t be rewarded. This is not impressive, it should be the norm.
But perhaps in Robert’s community basic honesty and morality isn’t normal anymore, and that’s the problem.
I heard something entirely different in her speech, manner and attitude.
There was something about her that immediately unsettled me. She is not a charming woman by any means. But she does try desperately to use aspects of charm to manipulate people. When she spoke about Robert, I did not hear kindness, empathy, or genuine respect. I heard harshness and contempt. I heard someone who neither respected him, understood him, nor truly knew how to defend him or cared to.
One example that deeply disturbed me was hearing her claim that Aaliyah was “the love of Robert’s life.” I was shocked that she would first make such a grave assumption, then present it as part of defending him, and finally believe that such a statement could ever be justified. At that moment, I became convinced that she was not who she claimed to be. I believed she was one of those people who had recognised an opening, seen an opportunity, and intended to use it for herself.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Never rely on what you think you know. Remember the Lord in everything you do, and he will show you the right way.”
Proverbs 3:5-6
In that respect, I saw similarities with Don Russell. After hearing that Robert had been abandoned, he reportedly drove long distances and waited outside Robert’s studio for days. Some people would describe that behaviour as stalking. He described it as offering help. Eventually, he encountered Robert where he knew he would be, recognised Robert’s need for assistance with paperwork because of his dyslexia, and positioned himself as someone who could organise his finances and business affairs.
These are the kinds of manoeuvres that, in my view, are characteristic of sociopathic personalities. They seek out people with power, influence, fame, and vulnerability.
This, I believe, helps explain why so many people eventually repeated the same accusations. Yet when I say “so many,” I speak only repeating the false narrative that there were many, because the actual numbers tell a very different story. Robert has been exposed to tens of millions of people throughout his career—between fifty and seventy-five million people in some years. His name is recognised across the world.
Out of all those millions of people, only around fifty individuals, over 35 years came forward with false accusations. Which when tested against the measure of reporting their allegations was reduced to a small handful that ended up on his indictments in two states. Statistically, that represents 0.0000000001% per year and far, far less over 35 years. Over 35 years this would be a number so small that it is considered infinitesimal and unquantifiable. Meaning that they virtually found no one to come forward and even falsely accuse Robert and Robert had many, many past female lovers over his 35 year career and met millions of other women over 35 years. But the creators of Surviving R.Kelly manipulated the public with the perception of a large number of reliable accusers and witnesses. So there would be an outcry for Robert’s arrest, I believe. When that wasn’t the reality at all. Even the public figures they chose to speak didn’t even know him personally, or barely knew him. The men closest to him, who toured with him and attended many concerts, though silenced by vigilante mobs and in fear of being falsely implicated themselves, had nothing bad at all to say about him, never witnessed Robert doing anything inappropriate, they said, and claimed him as their “brother.” Many black men still call him their brother online, I notice. Though I personally question their brotherly love, their lack of courage in staying silent, their disloyalty in abandoning him at a time when he needed brotherly support the most, choosing silence and not standing up for him as men, and not showing real, powerful brotherly love or real support. But their response itself is a testament to Robert’s true behaviour. They weren’t included, and they would never have agreed to participate because it was clear to most people what Dream Hampton’s intention was, even to those who were Robert’s foes. Where was Jay Z, her friend? What about Dave Chappelle, who expressed that he wasn’t a friend of Robert’s in any way but refused to participate? Why did they refuse to participate? Those numbers alone should raise serious questions about the way these allegations were pursued and the way the documentary was made.
So, the greatest scrutiny should fall upon those who advanced these cases into the criminal courts, particularly Kim Foxx, Dream Hampton, and the team behind Surviving R. Kelly. No one genuinely committed to ethics, morality, justice, and due process would accept the accounts of individuals with documented histories of extortion, stalking, or false accusations as unquestionably reliable. Only people driven by corruption or personal benefit would pursue such claims in the way they did.
What made matters even worse, was that one of the few public figures presented as defending Robert—Sharron Winbush—was, at the same time, making statements that further damaged him.
To share another example, I also noticed a conversation Winbush had with Angelo Clary, where she questioned why he would take his daughter to an adult concert to listen to R. Kelly’s music. I have no problem with that question because, yes, it is something that has never been answered by these crooks.
What I have an issue with is her repeated pattern, which I have seen demonstrated not only with her but also with Robert’s lead attorneys, Steven Greenberg and Jennifer Bonjean. It is the presumption that people have that these people believed Robert and believed in him that was false. I do not believe they ever truly believed in Robert’s innocence, and this is why they took the catastrophic strategies they did against Robert and to my detriment—labelling his interns, his long-term living girlfriends, instead of infatuated and obsessed employees when that was not the reality.
Winbush went on to tell Clary that he must have heard about Robert, Aaliyah, and Reshona, so why would he risk exposing his daughter to Robert.
As if any of the stories were ever true.
This is where I have to control my desire for the complete destruction of some people. Because Robert would never have seen that. It is impossible for Robert to see everything and watch everything happening around him.
That is why the RICO case was so idiotic and corrupt at its root. Robert has documented severe dyslexia, which can exist on a spectrum in people, and because of this he became dependent on others to manage the business side of his operation and to do their jobs ethically, lawfully, and morally.
Unfortunately, no one ever advised Robert to seek properly vetted professionals only, because everyone was looking to benefit for themselves. A man at his level of success had no business ever employing people from his own community and neighbourhood where corruption, lies, theft, and petty crimes run rampant and have become normalised and even justified.
They blame capitalism and not the corrupt and demonic characters who never grow up, never change, never take responsibility for themselves and their own lives, and always find excuses and people to blame, use or exploit.
That is why I believe Robert had all these petty criminals working for him. They were the real RICO in the end, separate from him—running their own scams, schemes and plots, stealing honour, money, and his hard work from the inside.
Winbush making that last statement shocked me to no end, but what shocked me even more was that everybody called that defending Robert.
I do realise we have serious issues in the Black American community with illiteracy, young people dropping out of school, and therefore lacking education. This creates a deficit and leaves room for large groups of people to be manipulated, used, and misled.
So seeing people support Winbush was shocking for me because, in no way, shape, or form did I see her speaking as a defence. I saw it more as pouring kerosene onto a fire. Her running her mouth recklessly, beause of her delusions about him and about everyone else.
But this is the thing about people with certain disordered thinking, beliefs, and agendas: they are constantly mistaken for being good, innocent, kind, and caring. For being thorough, intelligent, fair and uncorrupted by self interest.
Charm, when translated, means a spell. Charm is what they use to get to their target, keep the target there for as long as they need them for supply, and then discard their target with no feelings at all.
These characters have been around Robert throughout his entire career, one after another. They targeted him, but he was none the wiser. Nobody could or would have warned him that these people target celebrities and high-profile men especially.
The fact that Robert is a quadrouple threat—extremely bright, abundantly talented, a little handsome 🙂 (no very, very handsome in my view lol; a private joke between Robert and I), and wealthy—makes him especially attractive to the most relentless stalkers and predators with these disorders, sociopathic women especially.
When you become accustomed to accepting the female dysfunction around you, you begin to dismiss it all as simply “crazy,” just as Robert referred to Winbush. He would say, “She’s just crazy.”
But crazy in clinical terms means insane or suffering from a mental disorder.
To me, that revealed that his life and mind had grown accustomed to insanity, mental disorders, and mental illness in other people. He had come to minimise it as simply being “crazy.”
I didn’t.
Back in 2018, I warned Robert to run from Winbush and stay as far away from her as possible, and he tried. But I underestimated just how relentless these people are in targeting and manipulating others behind closed doors, especially when they think no one is watching. They find people’s vulnerabilities and exploit them.
For Robert, that vulnerability was his lack of witnesses, something I hold MuteRKelly, MeToo, Time’s Up, and their allies explicitly responsible for. They violated Robert’s civil and human rights to earn a living as a man who was, at the very least, presumed innocent. They also bullied, harassed, and manipulated the public into withholding support from him long before his trials ever began. By labelling people who supported him with denigrating terms like “rape apologists,” paedophile supporters, etc., or more covertly implying that people who showed support for him were deprived of the moral fabric of normal, healthy people in society who would blindly support a stranger with a criminal background, jump on bandwagons for mob justice, and support these strangers they knew nothing about, just because they cried. Mobs full of false accusers like they were. That was the explicit, unapologetic brainwashing and manipulation of these groups.
That left many people fearful for their own reputations, afraid of retaliation, and worried about losing their livelihoods, especially those who were also public figures and depended on public support. As a result, Robert had very few people to choose from. Winbush and other disordered individuals with the same characteristics stepped in online, continually pushing their support onto him while finding ways to manipulate his lack of freedom.
Robert being denied bond by a highly biased and, I believe, deeply corrupt judge, Ann Donnelly, also meant he was unable to assemble the team of people he genuinely needed for his defence. He was denied his due process rights and his presumption of innocence, his human rights. He could not see Winbush’s public unraveling online—her rants, her outbursts, or her portrayal of herself as his strategist when, in reality, she had only been his cook for a short period of time.
When Robert was free, he kept his distance from Winbush because he could see her unraveling. But once he was incarcerated, she began writing to him with endless manipulation and false claims of being a powerful support, repeatedly presenting herself as his hero and as the person moving everything in the right direction—a product of grandiose delusions rather than reality.
Robert and I were strategising privately. I was the only person with the authority to speak publicly, and I tried to be responsible, careful, and thorough. Meanwhile, people like Winbush and others online were careless. They did not properly read the documents, they did not properly research the cases, and they simply repeated the same misinformation to one another until it became an endless cycle.
So what happens when the systems around you become corrupted and infiltrated by the kind of activity that psychology describes as disorders? Christianity teaches that Satan is the father of disorder. What happens when both your defence system and the justice system become infiltrated with these characteristics from a communal, social, and legal standpoint?
The DSM describes antisocial personality disorder as involving a pervasive pattern of disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others. Common features include repeated unlawful behaviour, deceitfulness, impulsivity, irritability and aggressiveness, reckless disregard for the safety of oneself or others, consistent irresponsibility, and a lack of remorse. ¹
I have witnessed prosecutors in this case who showed no empathy, no morality, no concern for truth, and who were relentless—malevolent, even—towards Robert. I have seen accusers displaying the same kinds of traits and characteristics. I have also watched people online and elsewhere, who claimed to be Robert’s biggest supporters, blatantly refuse to support his official YouTube channel, his partner—me—or his truth, while displaying those same characteristics themselves.
Then I watched millions of so-called “flying monkeys” being used and led by equally disordered and narcissistic personalities within organisations such as MeToo, Time’s Up, and Mute R. Kelly.
What outcome could possibly have occurred other than the one that did?
We now live in a world where these disorders and characteristics have become so widespread, manipulative, persistent, and corrupt that they have spread throughout many of our institutions. Even psychiatry itself has been infiltrated by people who seek power, money, and prestige over genuine concern for human life. As a result, some hospitals cannot even properly diagnose these disorders, as I have experienced, because some of the doctors themselves display these same characteristics.
That is what happens in ecosystems and larger systems infiltrated like this. The healthy become labelled unhealthy. The normal become labelled disordered. The moral and the good are called evil, while evil is presented as good. Like Robert and I were for years.
Those looking at people like Robert and me—people who strive to be moral, healthy, and spiritually grounded—are operating from an entirely different worldview. It is a worldview outside of God, where people make themselves their own gods or “goddesses,” refusing to bow before the Creator or acknowledge how little they truly know. They become corrupt, sinful, self-deceived, easily manipulated, and easily misled or the the perpatrators of such covert abuse.
When people like Robert and me become outnumbered in systems that were meant to protect the innocent, healthy, law abiding and the good but instead protect the corrupt, the sinister, the demonic, and the disordered, we become labelled as what they themselves are.
We became the outlaws outnumbered by dirty crooks and crims….
Because we were the minority in this. The good verses the evil.
This is why people watched the Gayle King interview with Robert and labelled Robert the fraud, while two real frauds sat in on the side allowing Robert to carry the blame for their own corruption, lies and unrequitted obsession with him.
Every competent criminal psychologist will tell you that a person who has been falsely accused often reacts with genuine rage, emotion, and anger. Those who are deeply pathological or psychopathic, however, frequently respond with an unsettling calmness and emotional detachment. They do not shed a tear.
I have watched another famous man in the music industry, whom I know is guilty, give interviews with a completely calm demeanour and almost no emotion at all, despite brutally assaulting women. Yet he has lived his best life over the last seven years, while Robert—a deeply good man—accepted his sentence and went to prison.
All because that man is one of them. He is demonic, in my view.
I watched Winbush try to manipulate people in the early days to believe that something more was going on between Robert and her. Her posts on Instagram alarmed me so much that I mentioned it to Robert and kept warning him.
She posted that she was waking up next to a King while photographing outside Trump Tower Chicago. I knew she was lying because I was with him in that moment and at that time.
But what was even more alarming was that she also stated that Kings need real Queens in their lives at the same time as the other posts on Instagram, which she eventually deleted.
But in all these years, she hasn’t stopped trying to pursue Robert and get into his life. If not Robert, she attaches herself to people like Kanye West, whose mother she claims she had a small, short-term association with. If not Kanye, she posts about Jay-Z and delusions of Jay-Z protecting Robert in prison.
It never ends with Winbush, and it hasn’t, because Robert isn’t home to make things clear and he only has me to rely on. Others are being used, misled, and manipulated by her lies, manipulation, grandioise claims and “charm.”
Her recent ongoing posts using overly sexual AI art that is not even candid in dipicting her, with captions, is just part of that attempt to lure in men and people to be tricked when she doesn’t look like that at all. The last video images allegedly captured of her showed a woman who was almost disabled by her obesity, and she has refused to show herself on camera all these years, possibly for these reasons.
She can build up any false identity she wants now using social media, AI and manipulation.
Only a few days ago, she posted a video claiming that Robert had messaged her and wanted people to send him receipts for money they had given in the name of his cause to others. The false promise was that he would call everybody back who sent them.
All of this is false because Robert and I have communicated recently about her, with the agreement that he would not communicate with her no matter what she promised to do to support him.
I told him firmly that she was demonic and evil in my view and pretending to be good. I even sent her a cease notice on our behalf, but she did what all of these people do: she blocked me, hoping to block reality so she could continue doing what she was doing and pretending that it was all real.
Psychologically, I believe that she and others like her have complex, highly dysfunctional family histories where they have relied on delusions and fantasies as coping strategies.
The fact that she has obsessed over Robert for so many years, relentlessly and endlessly, is an example of the type of character—especially women, but men too—that he has had to navigate and operate around.
The reason I have used her as a case study is because you can find her online on YouTube and Instagram right now, engaged in imaginary battles with people just like her, disordered individuals using Robert’s name. Posting things Robert has never said or asked for. Wanting people to see her as that AI woman. Wanting to manipulate people into believing that her delusions of grandeur are reality. That she looks like that AI art, and some people actually believe it.
Lastly, I am going to briefly discuss one of the end traits of an association with such people and how it normally ends, but also what good people can do to win against them.
Because all the messaging tends to be this idea that they are powerful, always win, and cannot be overcome, which is false because I have beaten these types many times in life and won each and every time.
Most of them don’t have any real intelligence or mental order. They rely on lies, the power of numbers, abuse of power, brute force, manipulation, slander, gossip, cruelty, corruption, sneaking around in the dark, covert actions behind people’s backs, and all from a place of delusions of grandeur.
You just have to remember that how they see themselves is not reality. Everything they don’t possess and pretend to possess you actually have in abundance. They are not as strong, powerful, brilliant, genius, attractive, popular, or influential as they think they are. Not ever against God. They are the ones far outnumbered.
Their affliction is your superpower.
They will stay admiring their own reflection even while their whole foundation in life is virtually crumbling into the hell they built for you or your loved one. Because they will never see you coming; they are too infatuated with themselves and too certain of their brilliance, rightness, and power.
You will win every single time against them if you are smart and willing to listen and wait for God every single day with every action or inaction. If you do not back down when you have your chance to take back what was stolen. If you do not relent or feel compassion for them.
Do not ever turn around and fall for the false vulnerability, the charm or let your heart rule your head with them. Because remember they do not feel normal human emotions of empathy like you. If they had their change they would destroy you and never feel real contrition or remorse.
Its not about revenge and don’t ever rely on rage or anger. You have to let that go for yourself. So you can focus. Its about justice, its about standing up and defending your life and protecting those you love most from their harm.
Now I know that these conditions psychologically exist on a spectrum, so I deal with people at the level they have these disorders, and this is only from a personal standpoint, not a clinical one. I have intertwined my personal experience with my academic knowledge and learning.
The part where narcissistic people discard their targets and the people they pursue is really the part that exposes them, and they do this when they fail to get what they want.
In Winbush’s case, she has bounced between discard and desperate obsessive attachment. The discard, for me, was seen when she started to align with someone she had previously attacked as being dangerous and harmful to Robert—another YouTube identity who also has characteristics of narcissism and a pathology.
This other character, in a moment of delusional grandiose beliefs and what could be his psychopathy, threatened to harm Robert from afar by suggesting he is a member of a gang and has contacts within the system.
This is someone Robert has nothing to do with at all, has never met, and does not even know.
This man had various YouTube channels promoting himself as a supporter of Robert and his due process rights. He did this for years and even led people into the streets to march and protest.
But when it seemed like the recognition he was seeking and the public praise, maybe even a real association with Robert, failed, he resorted to threatening Robert’s life just like that.
This is the man Winbush now spends time defending online and aligning with because she too has not achieved her supply of attention, public recognition, validation, etc., which is part of the discard process these people go through.
This is why Robert’s case needs to be studied on all levels of society—from legal, communal advocacy, religious, and psychological perspectives.
But this is how you win, in my view.
They lack everything healthy, normal people have: faith in God, harmony, balance, empathy, morality, brilliance, ingenuity, flexibility, humility, inner strength, security, strategy, and real power found through God alone. not to mention the wisdom to know when to stop and let go.
So this is the superpower of those with faith in God. You will always win and always overcome them.
But you must move around them and do so quietly. Let them believe they have won. Let them believe their own delusions until they run themselves into the ground with how brilliant, beautiful, talented, and desirable they are. While they are in a trance, overcome by their own brilliance and beauty, you attack and strike hard and be exact. Hit them from the back, hard and don’t ever look back, regret or relent.
Leave that to God. That’s not your work.
Keep it quiet. Don’t fight them head-on ever. Not from close range.
Get yourself and your loved ones safely as far away as you can from them first, and then launch the attack from afar, when God says so and they don’t even know where you are. The attack of their lives must come using precision, planning, strategy, and intelligence. Use every gift you have that they do not have.
Use every weapon you have been given by God to protect and defend yourself. But never ever hurt people that have never done you or anyone else any harm. Not verbally, psychologically, physically or otherwise and never take the law into your own hands. Otherwise you are the evil you despise.
Whatever you do, do not let them know what you are doing.
People still don’t know Robert and my grand plan and what is going on behind the scenes.
This is the power in being me and being Robert (the power from God that is). Being humble and incredibly strong people of faith. Myself, being a woman who follows God and Jesus as much as I humanly can, daily. A woman who listens and obeys. But also a woman who doesn’t seek profit in any way. A woman who is patient as the night becoming day and a woman who is willing to wait.
But I warn the world, near and far: we are in the trenches. Find good, genuine people, hardworking, noble and God fearing communities who love God and stay close to them. Be a godly man or woman of the Word, not only in what you say but also in how you live and how you treat everyone, with equal regard. Live what you preach.
Stay far away from people who elevate themselves above others, who have an all-knowing, always-right God complex, and who call good evil and evil good. Confidence in your gift is not narcissism. Especially if you are using it for the good of all people great or small. God encourages us to be confident in what we can do and who we are, without becoming prideful, selfish or self-absorbed.
But first, you must know what good and evil are in this world.
Good never harms the innocent (we are not talking about accidents but reckless disregard and intention). Even those who live immoral lives are innocent under the law until proven guilty.
Good people never attack strangers, whether from behind or in public. They don’t gossip or spread slander for any reason or join those who do. They mind their own business and what they know to be true and real.
Normally they are working hard with their hands, being creative, with their family or loved ones, not online looking for attention, opportunity or crime. Not spreading gossip and slander and corrupting minds.
Good people don’t just believe everything they hear about others; they need to experience it and see it for themselves. Because they know that people lie and corrupt people try to change peoples minds about good people.
Good people protect their families and those closest to them first and foremost, but not from imaginary monsters THEY pursue, stalk, and prey upon for financial gain or fame.
Good people seek and pray for justice without recognition or praise. They are humble and happy to serve God, not human beings. They serve God first.
Good people bow before the power, honour, and infinite genius and wisdom of God every day, and that is what leads their lives.
In the very least, good people who don’t know God know they aren’t God, all knowing and infinitely brilliant. So they stay humble in the knowledge that they don’t always have all the answers and are sometimes even wrong. They mind their own business, own work and their own family.
They leave judging to God and courtrooms and respect the law.
But they also understand that justice systems around the world are impefect systems created by man, with some people who are corrupt. So some people are unjustly arrested and wrongfully convicted.
I have to say this. If I were anyone reading this who wanted to avoid being used or becoming a target of these kinds of people in life, I would commit my life to God and His authority above all others and commit to leading a humble and quiet life. Live in peace, as far as it depends on you, and never seek undue attention or recognition.
But most of all, avoid the heartless, the reckless, the careless, and those who gossip and slander people you do not know personally.
To God be all glory forever and ever! Amen.
¹ American Psychiatric Association. (2022). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (5th ed., text rev.; DSM-5-TR). American Psychiatric Association Publishing.
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