A true story about and explaining Robert’s “Pied Piper” phenomenon.

I’ve been with Robert for over eight years, and our friendship started months before our relationship ever did. So, I have had time to watch and experience firsthand this phenomenon and understand why Robert called himself the “Pied Piper.”

It has nothing to do with children at all (only dark minds would conclude that); it has everything to do with the magnetism of his music and of him. I’ve never seen anything like it in my life, it should be studied. It’s almost scary how one man can be chronically and irreversibly obsessed over because he is R.Kelly.

What happened to him because of the documentary, Surviving R.Kelly is evidence of that. How many women were infatuated with him from the beginning because they heard his music and watched some of his videos? If that’s not the Pied Piper archetype, then I don’t know what is.

Even I, who had not listened to Robert’s music for many years, was intensely moved by his music. It is also a known fact that it is mostly very intimate music that is meant to be enjoyed between two committed people in a marriage.

Robert, I know, has said that even though it’s “baby-making music,” he understands that his culture is not full of babies made through unions that were always godly. He has said this—that babies come from all kinds of situations.

In fact, I would say he is the biggest advocate for #ProLife, and so am I. So don’t believe the hype about Robert encouraging abortions anywhere. I don’t know why people don’t listen to his music and believe his stance on these things.

When he explicitly said, “Don’t come near me and try to get around me if you are underage,” he was making his position clear. “Show me some ID before we even get to know each other” is what he was saying in that line of his song.

No predator of underage women, anywhere in this world would ever write that. Only a man focused on protection and prevention of trickery and fraud would write that, so let’s stop that narrative immediately. The constant ignoring of his reality is shocking—the reality you can all see with your own eyes and hear with your own ears. He is and has always been “R.Kelly,” The most pursued man under heaven.

Watch his concerts and see how women almost try to tear off his clothes. That’s who R.Kelly—Robert—was ands is to women. He was the fantasy, the boyfriend they never had, the husband they dreamed about, and, to many, their dream one-night stand. That’s who he was in his past, before me. But who women still think he is.

Even celebrity women were not immune to Robert’s magnetism. So, this constant, intentional misrepresentation of him as being desperate for women, especially those not of age, needs to be answered for before God. People need to answer to God for the constant need to push false identities onto Robert—a man he never was. From the time his career took off over 35 years ago women have gone crazy about him and it hasn’t stopped. They just cover it up with lies of fear and abuse, when it was always obsessive love turned sour because the love was unrequitted and not returned.

His music draws in women who are young and old alike and he has no control over that, no artists does. This was his reality from being R.Kelly. That is the meaning of the Pied Piper.

I don’t know why so many men were and are jealous of him and hide behind advocacy for women when, in reality, it’s appears to be concealed jealousy or envy. I can’t explain the epidemic levels of erotomania surrounding him, with every week bringing a new woman claiming to me to be his wife, his soulmate, or his love. Referring to him as “my husband, my boyfriend,” and more.

I can’t explain why God made Robert the kind of man that too many women secretly want. I just know that they are not wrong in their view of him and his character.

Because Robert is all that and more.

He is masculine, incredibly strong, incredibly hansdome, compassionate, kind, brilliant, has swag for days, is wise like an old tree, and is the kind of man women rarely get to see. He is humble in that he will “kick it” with people who aren’t famous all day, every day of the week.

All of this will change of course, when Robert is home. Because his safety and security, his reputation and liberty will no longer be gambled with.

People claim they want celebrities who are down-to-earth and willing to mix with ordinary people, but they don’t know how to act when they actually get close to them. Many people lose their minds and begin seeing the celebrity as an object, or as someone who can be used to fulfill their personal dreams and agendas, rather than as a human being.

Just look at what happened to Robert over and over again. People fabricated associations that were never real. From manager (Don Russell), to goddaughter (Reshona Landfair), to girlfriends and fiancées (Azriel Clary and Joycelyn Savage), to cousins, sisters, and the list goes on and on.

This is why they were able to build a RICO case. Fake associates who had little to nothing to do with his real life, or who had only a weak and distant connection to him. Some he didn’t even know at all were added to his indictment to build the impression of a criminal organisation led by Robert. Because they really had nothing after months of ransacking his homes and his life.

All because he gave himself and his gift to the world and chose to mix with ordinary people. That’s why he has been in prison.

Robert is a real man, and women are craving more real men today—men who are strong, protective, honorable, financially secure, and attractive (who take care of their appearance).

At the same time, masculinity is increasingly being attacked culturally, often in subtle ways, by people who claim that most men are toxic and incapable of growing, changing, or improving themselves. As a result, some men are embracing more feminine identities or characteristics because they don’t want to be hated, vilified, or labeled the way Robert has been—called perverted, abusive, controlling, or blamed as part of the patriarchal problem in the world. But then the same women are not attracted to these feminine leaning men, at all and women and men are no longer coming together like they use to to date, to get married and have a family.

A lot of men see what happens to men who embody traditional masculine traits and decide it’s safer not to be that man at all.

Which leaves very few men for the women in this world to marry and have a family with. So many women have started these fantasies of relationships with celebrities like Robert, who they know they can’t be with or have. But they hope they will one day have someone like him to love and marry.

That’s the reality we need to talk about. Where are the other men like Robert willing to risk their lives to still be real men even in the face of danger, false perceptions and misrepresentations. Even if it might cost your life? Will you still be a man or give in to the demands that you change.

Change what is unhealthy, ungodly and unkind. But never change that part of you that instinctively needs to fight. Because that is not toxic, it’s manhood, it’s protection. It’s holy and right to God.

Because women are getting stronger from being alone and taking on masculine roles. These women will walk through other men who aren’t like Robert. Walk through and over them and come back to do it again.

But Robert never tolerated it and they loved him for that. Whilst now claiming it was control because they never got him in the end.

This is a serious issue, and it’s women who are doing this and creating this issue, and some men too, who think that partnering with this kind of unhealthy perspective increases their approval amongst such groups and from women.

But most women won’t respect such men at all. Never. That’s how we were created naturally. We want humble, loving, powerful, strong, protective men, like Robert is and always was. So that we can be women and who God created us to be.

Personally, the man I prayed for is the man I got, Robert Sylvester Kelly.

I prayed for my equal in intelligence from God, and I say that humbly. I prayed for a man who would be my best friend, a natural-born leader, and super strong. Of course, I prayed that he would be attractive to me.

I prayed that he would love to pray and love God as much as I do. I prayed for someone fun and funny, with a great sense of humour. I wanted someone who knew how to dress well because I was in fashion, and I think I did pretty well.

I prayed for someone who loved music as obsessively as I do. I prayed for things I couldn’t even see. Of course, I prayed for a man who, like me, wanted to build and create a legacy. I prayed for a man that desired me as much as I desired him, completely and exclusively and endlessly.

I prayed for someone who understood wealth and success, yet wasn’t defined by them—someone gentle, humble, and kind at heart.

Everyone prays to meet someone like themselves, and Robert did too. He prayed to meet me.

I prayed all of this when I was much younger. I even forgot all my prayers until I met Robert, and it was unbelievable how perfectly we fit together, like two old friends with this intense, wondrous draw to each other.

It was overwhelming how we felt about each other and still is so deep I sometimes pinch myself that I am so lucky. It was so clear that we were never meant to be without each other and that it was from God.

But I get it. I will never forget my own Pied Piper moments listening to his music when we first met and feeling his spirit in every word—the sincerity, the rhythm, the fluidity, the brilliance, the harmonies, the sounds you don’t expect, and the lyrics that seem to come from somewhere else.

So, if anyone anywhere ever wants to know why he is the Pied Piper, come speak to me, and I will explain in detail how the Pied Piper got me when I never expected it.

Juliet.