I’m typically one for lengthy passages, but I’ll keep our introduction brief as there will be other opportunities to share this story with Robert on different platforms. This post represents only my side of the story, and I won’t speak on Robert’s behalf. I simply wanted to document our story on our blog for those interested. †

To fully understand the context, I recommend reading the previous posts about Robert and Aaliyah, as well as his relationships with his children. These stories provide essential background information, and I think it’s crucial to start from the beginning rather than jumping in midway.

Unfortunately, people often skip this step online, which leads to confusion about the situation, the individuals involved, and their motivations. For those unfamiliar with me, my name is Juliet, with a middle name starting with “A” and a surname starting with “O”.

In the early days of my advocacy, I chose to keep my full name private until Robert and I went public. I’d like to explain why, and I’m confident you’ll understand.

When I first joined online communities, I was eager and naive about the situation Robert was facing. I innocently believed I would be welcomed, embraced, and believed. I thought people would take me at my word and understand that it would take time to clarify my identity. This was especially important, given the numerous complaints and questions about Robert’s loved ones, friends, and lack of support.

However, I wasn’t welcomed or believed, and initially, I didn’t understand why. Later, I gained a deeper understanding of the bigger picture and the circumstances surrounding Robert’s false accusations and misunderstandings.

For the record, I’ve been a private person for several years.

I’ve maintained a peaceful and quiet life, out of the public eye, which has brought me immense joy. This private existence provided me with peace, security, and freedom – luxuries that, I’ve come to realize, are often compromised when one becomes more public.

Coming online to defend Robert was a monumental step for me. I had never needed to defend my identity or agenda before. Most people don’t experience this; they can simply create an online account, share their information, and relationship status without being questioned. So, it was shocking to me that anyone would question my integrity.

This was especially true since I’ve never sought fame or celebrity status. Unlike other characters in Robert’s story, I’ve always preferred to keep a low profile. Initially, I was active on Instagram, where I shared some of the early struggles of navigating the #MeToo movement and I started there privately advocating for Robert’s innocence. At that time, my followers were a small, private group who had known me for a long time (only about 400 people).

I received support for everything I shared on Instagram because I had already established trust with my followers. As a result, they accepted my words without dispute. This was partly due to the nature of my followers, who were individuals seeking truth, spiritual understanding, healing, and aware that things are not always as they seem.

My Instagram page was a private space for my personal exploration of the world and its changes. The community was characterized by compassion, understanding, and a desire for equal justice for all parties involved.

At that time, the media had not yet sensationalized the cases, and most people hadn’t seen the documentary “Surviving R. Kelly,” which featured these conspirators presenting a biased narrative. As a result, public opinion was more balanced, with people seeking fair and impartial justice.

However, as time passed, CNN, TMZ, and alternative YouTubers exploited the situation for their own gain, grossly sensationalizing the cases and misleading the public.

Media outlets created a caricature of a man that didn’t exist, claiming it was R. Kelly. Robert Sylvester Kelly, someone who had become incredibly dear to me. For now, I’ll keep our meeting private until Robert and I decide what we’re comfortable sharing.

I will say that our encounter was genuine and magical. There were no tricks, predation, stalking, or manipulation involved. It was a dreamlike, supernatural experience. While I’ve shared some aspects of this story on YouTube, I won’t elaborate further here.

Suffice it to say that I wasn’t seeking a relationship with him at the time.

It became clear that God and the angels had other plans for us. Early on, I knew and felt deeply, more than anything in the world that Robert and I would remain inseparable, regardless of who we dated. We were destined to be the best of friends for life. It was so clear to the both of us.

I felt a deep sense of protection towards him and was hurt by the numerous false and hurtful claims made about him. After purchasing a gold rosary and praying with it, I experienced a series of supernatural and magical events surrounding Robert and me.

One remarkable phenomenon was that Robert’s songs would play at precise moments, as if in response to my thoughts or questions about him. For instance, on my first birthday since meeting him, I wondered how he felt about birthdays. Did he consider them special? In that instant, his song “It’s Your Birthday” began playing on my phone.

I’d like to share exactly what I heard in that moment before continuing. I was left speechless, and these extraordinary events continued to happen with us.

It’s Your Birthday –

I’m hesitant to share more while Robert is away, as I know some people only read my posts to pry rather than to understand or gain new insights. This brings me back to my earlier experience of not being welcomed online. Soon after joining, I realized Robert faced a significant problem – but it wasn’t him; it was everyone else, including some of his fans.

The fans I’m referring to will likely be upset that I’m mentioning them, as if I’ve never been a fan of Robert or other artists. However, these particular fans don’t respect boundaries and feel entitled to Robert. I’ve never seen anything like it. They send strange messages, make demands, and even hurl abuse at me, his partner, for trying to protect him. They feel entitled to dictate what people should do, organize his life, manage his defense, and share his story.

The shocking part is that these individuals don’t even know Robert personally.

I learned the hard way that those who complained the most online were also the least receptive to being corrected about Robert’s story. They were dominant and adamant that they were right and stormed forward to advocate for him, armed with incorrect information. When confronted with the truth, they refused to listen, insisting that their version of events was accurate.

Their meddling in his affairs created endless problems and even led to criminal disputes among themselves, fueled by rivalry and a desire to be his most prominent supporter. I found the situation frightening for Robert, as his cases relied on the public learning about me and our relationship.

The success of his cases depended on someone who knew him intimately vouching for his character. This wouldn’t come from fans who had never met him or only met him briefly. Nor would it come from the two women his attorneys misrepresented as his girlfriends.

The truth had to come from a long-term, intimate relationship with a real woman. When we met, I was 42, and I was running my own few small businesses from home, I later went on to study integrative medicine, to become a doctor. I became the closest person to him, knowing him more intimately than anyone else, including his friends and those who called him brother.

Even they barely knew his true character or the reality of his relationships with women. It seemed they had an unspoken rule not to ask questions or interfere. I found this approach absurd and superficial, especially considering that Robert needed genuine friends who knew him well, now more than ever.

When Robert and I were just friends, I didn’t hesitate to ask him hard, deep questions. As a woman, I wasn’t accustomed to having friendships like this. I realize that men’s friendships can be different. However, Robert desperately needed friends who truly knew him to stand as witnesses to his life.

Unfortunately, his friendships lack depth. Only one friend showed consistency and loyalty, but even that relationship is incomplete.

This post explores relationships of all kinds, particularly intimate, romantic ones that lead to marriage and children. I previously mentioned that I would answer questions about whether Robert and I plan to get married and start a family. So, here’s the truth.

Robert and I were clear about the nature of our relationship from the beginning. The magical and mystical occurrences surrounding my gold rosary only reaffirmed that our connection was divinely planned. Naturally, discussions about marriage and children arose early on in a serious and thoughtful manner. While we weren’t rushing to get married, just to be married, we were deeply in love and commited very early on. Understanding that commitment begins long before marriage and taking viws. We wanted to savor our profound, spiritual, and powerful connection. Especially with all hell breaking out around us. Our love was our damage haven. Being in that space protected us from what was going on in the rest of the world and this caricature R.Kelly that they were creating around him, without him and despite reality, evidence and truth. So marriage is without a question, children too have already been spoken about and planned.

What has surprised me, though, is that many women online seem to have similar feelings about Robert, despite not knowing him personally or having any relationship with him. I’ve received direct messages from women confessing their deep love for him.

I don’t think the world fully understands the extent of the obsession many women have with Robert. His fanbase, in general, exhibits an addictive behavior that’s unparalleled, even among fans of other prominent artists. While those fans may be enthusiastic about the music, clothing, brand, and person, they don’t typically try to establish an intimate relationship or connection with the celebrity.

Robert’s many fans, however, display a unique blend of meddling, prying, and erotomanic tendencies. Perhaps this stems from his attractive appearance, exceptional talent, warm personality, and deep masculinity – a rare combination. His single status and history of dating various women over the years may have also contributed to this phenomenon. Additionally, his music often explores romantic and provocative themes, which can blur the lines between reality and fantasy for some fans.

As a result, I’ve faced significant issues with Robert’s fanbase, necessitating a firm approach to establish boundaries.

This phenomenon, observable only after spending time among his fanbase, is the source of the ongoing controversies surrounding Robert and women.

Regarding the two male individuals who made false and defamatory claims about Robert’s sexuality, they will ultimately face consequences for their actions, especially from God. But also from the law when this is investigated for corruption.

It’s clear that these claims were baseless, and no one is truly fooled into believing that Robert has ever identified as homosexual or had that issue, except people of a perverse mind. This tactic is often used to smear black men, exploiting the community’s lingering biases against homosexuality.

As Christians, Robert and I believe in loving all people for who they are, while standing firm on our faith’s teachings. The individuals who made these false claims are shameless and Godless, motivated by a desire for personal profit.

We must recognize that not all men will succumb to societal pressures or deviate from their natural inclinations. Some men, like Robert, are confident in their masculinity and appreciate the feminine-masculine dynamic that God designed for spiritual, intimate, and physical relationships.

Whatever choices others make regarding their personal lives, please refrain from projecting those choices onto others who cherish the natural order between men and women, as Robert does. Using slander for profit will ultimately be the downfall of those two men, especially when the world realizes it has been deceived by conspirators into believing Robert is the opposite of his true character and nature.

Getting back to the women. The obsession exhibited by some women has led to numerous broken dreams and hearts. Although Robert may not have been fully aware of the extent of their infatuation, these women openly express their feelings online and in public. He may have become desensitized to this behavior over time.

In the past, Robert may have unintentionally contributed to the obsession by not being direct enough with these women, failing to convey that their fantasies were unrealistic. One notable example is a false accuser in New York,  who has a history of psychosis and erotomania. She stalked Robert for over 10 years, shocking her family. When rejected, she became vengeful.

The pattern of becoming vengeful and pathological when rejected is a recurring theme with these women. This is not something that can be observed from the outside; it requires an intimate understanding of Robert’s life, history, and experiences.

Unfortunately, Robert’s attorneys failed to conduct thorough research to understand who he was as a person. They relied on superficial information, assuming they could find everything they needed online. They didn’t take the time to ask questions or gather accurate information.

In fact, one attorney, Steven Greenberg, reportedly told a fan that he didn’t want to know about Robert’s long-term, monogamous relationship with me, a woman he loved and that he had no intimate connection to Joycelyn Savage or Azriel Clary. (It was purely plutonic, a working relationship; interns, as I mentioned a million times). A fan shared this information with me online, seemingly as proof that the attorneys weren’t corrupt or dishonest about Robert’s relationship status. However, this revelation only reinforced my position.

This brings me to the topic of Robert’s long-held desire to have a court order requiring his ex-wife to change her last name back to Lee, or alternatively, to her second husband’s name, McKee. One would expect that she would have changed her name upon remarrying, assuming the marriage was genuine. However, reports suggest that her second husband was equally exploitative in character as she is.

It’s possible that Andrea Lee’s second husband discovered she was receiving substantial child support payments from Robert, totaling over half a million dollars annually (I believe). This might explain why he didn’t object to her retaining Robert’s last name. However, their relationship was soon exposed as a sham.

I won’t explain how it’s been shown that we can get this court order. Just that it is confirmed with a precedent already set.

Andrea Lee has a history of engaging in fake relationships, even admitting to this herself; “my marriage was not a real mare age.” She has said in interviews. Her marriage to Robert is a prime example. They married quickly, despite barely knowing each other. Even years after their marriage, she seemed disinterested in genuinely understanding him. For instance, she only learned about his dyslexia many years later, long after their children had grown. In contrast, I discovered this aspect of his life within a few weeks of meeting him.

Their living arrangement also contradicts the narrative Andrea presented on Surviving R. Kelly. In reality, Andrea led a life of luxury, with separate bedrooms and lavish amenities, such as a bar fridge for refreshments in her room.

The relationship between Robert and Andrea was flawed from the start, lacking the fundamental elements of a true partnership. There was no commitment, no purity, and no shared spiritual foundation, despite her occasional reading of the Bible. They had no mutual understanding, and their relationship was built on shaky ground.

Robert had wanted to settle down, but he lacked the spiritual guidance and clarity on what makes a relationship genuine and a marriage healthy, whole, and worthy. Had he received proper guidance, such as a Catholic introduction to marriage, I believe he would not have married Andrea, especially not as quickly as he did.

Now, Robert lives with the consequences of choosing a partner who is morally bankrupt, corrupt, and spiritually void of human empathy. Andrea is addicted to fame and money. Robert’s only consolation was having children he adored, and who once adored him back. Despite his demanding touring schedule, he would often instruct his driver to turn back home to spend time with his young children

However, Robert’s relationship with his children has now been damaged by Andrea’s narcissistic tendencies, including her brainwashing, false storytelling, vengefulness, and overall corrupt sociopathic behavior. For a more detailed examination of these issues and their causes, please refer to my previous post on his relationship with his children.

Andrea Lee’s subsequent relationships have also been exposed as not real. After her TV marriage to Brian McKee, which ended quickly after she discovered his fraudulent activities with other women, it became clear that this relationship was also fabricated.

Andrea then attempted to create the illusion of a serious relationship with music producer and reality TV star Cisco. She posted about their supposed 10-year relationship, calling him her “King,” and shared intimate photos and videos on Instagram. However, Cisco later denied any romantic involvement, stating that there was no relationship. They have not been seen together since.

It appears that Cisco may have been assisting Andrea’s children with their music careers. Andrea’s approach seems to rely on her usual tactics of sexual seduction and self-exploitation, typical of sociopathic behavior. It’s surprising that the public has not yet recognized the pattern of problematic behavior that Andrea consistently displays. .

Some people have come to realize that the primary issue is not Robert’s actions, but rather Andrea’s behavior. This is not to absolve Robert of his responsibility, which he has accepted humbly, or his choices and decisions (which he has also acknowledged were not good). However, Andrea exhibits a consistent pattern characteristic of sociopathic females, making it impossible for her to maintain healthy relationships. She exploits everyone she interacts with.

THE SIGNIFICANCE OF CATHOLIC MARRIAGE TO CATHOLICS

For Catholics, marriage is a sacred institution and a sacrament that mirrors the love of Christ for his Church. It’s a lifelong partnership of mutual and exclusive fidelity between one man and one woman, ordered towards the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring.

The Significance of Marriage

Marriage is considered a sign of God’s love and a reflection of the unity and fruitful love between Christ and his Church. The Catholic Church teaches that marriage is a natural institution elevated by Christ to a sacrament, giving couples the grace to love each other as Christ loves his Church.

Key Elements of Catholic Marriage

• Lifelong Partnership: Marriage is a permanent union until the death of either spouse.
• Mutual and Exclusive Fidelity: Marriage is an exclusive union between one man and one woman.
• Ordered towards the Good of the Spouses: Marriage is oriented towards the well-being and happiness of the couple.
• Procreation and Education of Offspring: Marriage is open to the possibility of having children and educating them in the faith.

The Benefits of a Catholic Marriage

Getting married in the Catholic Church helps couples fulfill their Baptismal promises and receive graces that strengthen their spiritual bond. These graces include an increase in Sanctifying Grace, which makes the couple spiritually stronger, and the Sacramental Grace of Matrimony, which perfects the natural love of husband and wife and elevates it to a supernatural level.

CATHOLIC MARRIAGE; STEPS

I wanted to share this information as Andrea has consistently smeared Robert’s name using lies and fabricated stories of domestic violence and sexual abuse. Her goal is to deflect attention from her actions. Unfortunately, her tactics have come at the expense of her own children, whom she is willing to exploit for her own protection. This is also not to take away from her children’s evil actions and words in response, by betraying and publicly degrading, disrespecting, dishonoring and then falsely accusing Robert of a serious  and evil crime (that was already proven by two agencies to be false many years ago). They are responsible for their own evil choices and for following her path of destruction.

I’d like to conclude by sharing information about the Catholic marriage process for those interested in learning more. If you’re divorced and seeking a remedy for a marriage that wasn’t genuine or Christian, you may want to explore Catholic marriage annulment.

Before entering a Catholic marriage, it’s essential to establish a Catholic foundation in your relationship. This takes time, as it requires understanding the values and principles that underpin a Catholic marriage. A Catholic relationship is not superficial or worldly; it’s built on self-control, order, and a deep understanding of God’s direction. It is sacred and must be treated as such in all regards.

In a Catholic marriage, the couple strives to maintain self-control, loyalty and order, guided by their faith and commitment to each other under God’s direction.

The process for getting married in a Catholic church involves several steps, which may vary slightly depending on the diocese or parish. Here’s an overview:

INITIAL STEPS

1. Contact the parish: The couple should contact their local Catholic parish to inquire about the marriage process and schedule an initial meeting with the parish priest or deacon.
2. Meet with the priest/deacon: The couple will discuss their intentions, faith background, and marriage plans with the priest or deacon.

REQUIREMENTS AND DOCUMENTS

1. Baptismal certificates: Both parties must provide their baptismal certificates, which should be recent (issued within 6 months) and include notations of any sacraments received.
2. Confirmation certificates: If either party has been confirmed, they should provide their confirmation certificate.
3. Freedom to marry: Both parties must provide documentation that they are free to marry, which may include:
   • A decree of nullity (annulment) if previously married.
   • A death certificate if widowed.
   • A declaration of freedom to marry from their local bishop or priest if they were previously married in a non-Catholic ceremony.
4. Civil marriage license: The couple must obtain a civil marriage license from their local government.

MARRIAGE PREPARATION

1. Pre-marriage counseling: The couple will participate in pre-marriage counseling, which may include:
   • Meetings with the priest or deacon.
   • Marriage preparation programs, such as Engaged Encounter or Pre-Cana.
   • Online marriage preparation courses.
2. FOCCUS inventory: The couple will complete the FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding, and Study) inventory, a questionnaire that helps them assess their relationship and identify areas for growth.

WEDDING CEREMONY

1. Wedding rehearsal: The couple will participate in a wedding rehearsal, usually the day before the wedding.
2. Wedding ceremony: The couple will exchange vows and receive the sacrament of marriage during a Catholic wedding ceremony.

MUST THEY BE CATHOLIC?

No, both parties do not necessarily need to be Catholic to get married in a Catholic church. However:

1. One party must be Catholic: At least one of the parties must be a baptized Catholic.
2. Dispensation: If the non-Catholic party is not baptized or is baptized in a non-Catholic Christian denomination, a dispensation from the bishop may be required.
3. Commitment to raise children Catholic: The Catholic party must commit to raising any children from the marriage as Catholics.

It’s essential to note that each diocese or parish may have specific requirements or variations on these steps. Couples should consult with their local parish priest or deacon to ensure they meet the necessary requirements.